Taking responsibility for my choices
My daughter was in the WDC high school play "Wonderland" this fall. It was about Alice wanting to become a queen while in Wonderland. On Alice's journey she comes across a sign which reads "You Choose -- Your Choice." The Madhatter explains the concept to Alice. Even if you choose not to choose, that is your choice.
It sounds like accepting personal accountability to me.
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