If you're Catholic, be a Catholic
The issue related to the Barnesville, Minn., student being denied confirmation is that the Catholic Church very clearly holds that marriage is a union between one man and one woman. This isn't hidden or secret information.
When you profess to be Catholic, you profess to believe what the Catholic Church teaches and believes. No sacrament in the church is a right, and no one earns them or is entitled to them. The sacraments are a privilege.
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